Dating the visually impaired
I may be generalizing, but seeing as we’ve had to rely on feel to get a good impression of things, feeling up places which perhaps should be avoided on the first few dates isn’t necessary to feel the shape of someone’s body and determine whether you’ll like it or not.A hug or holding an arm reveals more than you may think.If anyone could give me some tips, suggestions, or ideas, it would be greatly appreciated. He's recently blind, he lost vision in one eye a few years back but only lost vision in the other in October. It also probably doesn't matter at all, but theee is a significant age difference between us. If you're worried you'll do something wrong I'd just be open and honest about that with him.I know I'd personally rather know someone didn't want to do something wrong, so that I could reassure them.So making the same effort as you would with a sighted woman is essential. No need to use the entire bottle of Hugo Boss, but enough that she may want to come closer to smell you a little more?As for women attracting blind men, the same rule goes with the looks.But like sighted women, blind women appreciate a man making an effort with their looks.She may not be able to see your ketchup spotted t-shirt, mismatched trainers or that pen mark on your right thigh, but if she somehow gets to hear about it from a friend who happened to see you on a date, she won’t likely be impressed with you.
Update: Since I wrote this post, I have been very fortunate to find love myself. I’ve also had sighted men ask how they can attract a blind woman.Blind women are the same as any women out there, so there’s no one answer to that question.So in short, if you are trying to attract a blind person, or just want to know the answers to those questions, the answer is, do exactly what you would do if the object of your fancy could see. However, aside from the practicality of sight, being with a sight impaired person has some advantages too.Not just in terms of behaviour, but also in taking care of your look. Flirting with a blind man for me at least, is a whole different thing to flirting with someone sighted.