American dating a frenchman
Rather, because, no matter who you are or where you hail from, YOU WILL GO ON MULTIPLE FIRST DATES.You can have the vocabulary of Donald Trump or look like Steve Bannon and Quasimodo’s love child – it doesn’t matter.You are, above all, a DINNER PROVIDER, destined to routinely nourish the female population of this country with overpriced sushi. The other virtue of America is that, no matter who you are or when your last dental visit was, YOU WILL KISS A LOT. Because, here in America, there is an unspoken rule that two people must kiss at the end of the date to “test out the chemistry”.Call me crazy, but, where I come from, if you feel like you need to “test” the chemistry, this means that there probably is no chemistry.That’s right – it may take American girls months to “become exclusive”, but it takes them DAYS to start planning the wedding.And then they wonder why American men are so “reluctant to commit.” In case you are a fellow expat, don’t give up your Green Card application quite yet.
No, in America, you have to plan an “activity.” You have to show her your sweat, your muscles, your endurance.Frenchmen like to flirt as well, even if they know very well there is no hope of it leading anywhere.The game is the main point, it’s relatively innocent and usually no-one gets hurt, just a little blushed :-) With kissing hi and goodbye being the standard and French women being more “flirtatious”, it can be difficult for foreigners to correctly read a French woman’s body language.Over the past four years, I have practically made a (pro bono) career of analyzing the French and their laissez-faire stance on everything, dating included.And so I thought it would only be fair to finally give .